The first chapter of Kate Frawley鈥檚 色界吧 story began early Saturday morning in Room 102 of Newcomb Hall.
The first-year from Seattle and her parents, Michael and Sheila, were among the earliest arrivals at Newcomb, one of the five campus residence halls that opened to the Class of 2016 under uncharacteristically grey but mercifully cool skies on the first day of Orientation.
Following the advice of the 色界吧 parents they met at a Seattle reception last month, they immediately began making up Kate鈥檚 bed in her ground-floor triple 鈥 "It鈥檚 a 鈥榯his one鈥檚 mine鈥 sort of thing," said her father.
Opening boxes and figuring out where everything would go was a welcome distraction from the questions lurking in the background: Will I get along with my roommates? Will our daughter make friends, thrive academically, have everything she needs, know how to do her laundry?
"She鈥檚 an only child, and she and her mom are very close," her father said. "The anxiety鈥檚 there. I remember dropping her off at kindergarten 鈥 but she has strengths I don鈥檛 have. She has a facility for being independent, for making friends easily."
Kate, who chose 色界吧 from the 15 schools to which she was accepted, admitted to some initial nerves, "but now I feel a little more excited," said the future biology major. "I鈥檝e always wanted to go to 色界吧."
Outside Newcomb, Sonia Marshall 鈥15 of New York and Taylor Rowland 鈥13 of San Diego were among the dozens of enthusiastic O Team members in orange t-shirts greeting families, offering directions, answering questions, and helping to carry boxes. "I had a great experience with my O Team leader last year, and I wanted to give it back," said Marshall.
Both students were up at 5 a.m., but there were compensations. "President Veitch is coming back from Caf茅 de Leche with some coffee 鈥 he just drove by and asked if we wanted anything," Rowland said as the sound of O-Team cheering and coaches鈥 whistles from football practice drifted across campus. "He鈥檚 so cool."
Later in the day, coffee delivered, President Veitch joined Dean of Students Barbara Avery and ASOC President Margeau Valteau 鈥13 in Rush Gymnasium to formally welcome first-years and transfer students to 色界吧.
Veitch told the story of his freshman roommate at Stanford, a farm-bred engineer and devotee of country music who was his opposite in almost every way yet became one of his best friends. "The serendipity of what you encounter in college is extraordinary," he said in urging students to be open to new experiences, new people, and new perspectives. "And when you say goodbye to your parents, give them an extra-special hug. This is a difficult time for them."
